Caring for a spouse or partner can change your relationship as well as your future plans as a couple. Many issues may arise that are unique to spousal/partner caregivers. First, the emotional roller coaster of the diagnosis, injury, and future health and disability of your spouse/partner may be overwhelming. How do I deal with the emotional side of caregiving along the journey?
Second, many spousal/partner caregivers state do not identify as a caregiver. “She is my wife – I am her husband.” Often the spousal relationship is more about give and take. However, when the tasks that use to be done by your spouse/partner, such as meal preparation, grooming, driving, or household finances, it may be time to start looking at what support you need to provide the care. It is also important to recognize everyone’s changing roles and contributions in the relationship. How does the give and take continue in the relationship?
Finally, sexual intimacy is one of the more difficult issues of spousal caregiving. How do caregiving and the disability change your relationship? It is important throughout the caregiving journey to address these issues.
While these issues may be unique to spousal/partner caregivers, other issues are similar. You are not alone! Check out the Caregiver Connect Guide and the spousal/partner caregiving discussion for more information.